This article is about a girl who was never too young to fall in love…and neither too young to get hurt.
Kyara,my childhood friend though,our paths met after ten years,only yesterday. It had been ten long years and we would have ten thousand things to talk about, I thought. But she had put her life to a standstill it seemed. She was the same or maybe all the more depressed, dejected soul. I remember those days when we kids were still struggling to keep our brittle friendships going, among those silly fights for pencils and erasers. How could she start to feel for a guy that early!! And then expect him to feel the same for her,expect him to stay in her life forever. Astonishing,isn’t it??
Ever since then,she’s fallen for him deeply each day…making her wounds deeper each day as well,but still hoping that one fine day, her ‘charming prince’ would come on a beautiful,white horse and take her on a distant ride and all that she’s ever dreamt of would come true thereafter.
“Kyara, you couldn’t just waste every single moment of your life waiting for someone,someone who’s not even yours,someone who’s long gone.It’s high time now that you should move on and accomplish higher goals of life.I know it would be the hardest thing,but it will be worth. After all, all of us here are going through some or the other difficulties in life, but you know what?? We are breaking,repairing and changing in the seams, unlike you, who has lived with this pain for so long now that it has become an inevitable part of your life.”
So this one’s for Kyara and many similar peeps out there. You’ve got to understand that life isn’t a fairy tale..not anymore ofcourse. None of your crazy fantasies would come true here. And again, instead of regretting and crying over things and people you couldn’t get and shall never get ,or over the pain people inflicted upon you, start living out your life. Remember, you can either live with that pain for the rest of your life OR take the pain as a lesson for strengthening yourself so you could live a better life. And then, maybe these ‘wrong’ people were only meant to help you find the ‘right’ ones in your life.
Believe me, life shall bestow plenty of happiness upon you through the people you are yet to meet . So expand beyond your self-imposed boundaries, keep moving forward and never let someone else define your self worth.
After all,you’ve got one,short life and you ought to make it large.
P.S.: Dear Kyara, I hope you’ll run into me another such day,maybe years later from now, but with a smile, because you did one thing you thought you never could…
That’s all for today.The next blog will be out soon.. Until then,stay motivated and keep supporting.Thank you.